A two tyrants learn, listen to his parenting
Professor Pan Yi father was the first country after the reopening of Jiangsu 上海喝茶微信 Province science scholar, daughter academic performance is also quite good. A two tyrants learn, how did this achievement reached? Recently, the father, the famous scholar computer field, deep Chinese Academy of Sciences Institute of Technology Computer Science and Control Engineering Dean Professor Pan Yi to share their parenting.
Father and daughter are learning Pa March 13 afternoon, the Shenzhen Polytechnic University, Chinese Academy of Sciences (hereinafter referred to as CAS deep Polytechnic), Shenzhen Institute of Advanced Technology Chinese Academy of Sciences (hereinafter referred to as Shenzhen Advanced Institute) sponsored by the Division of parents growing pulpit second life of lecturing. The pulpit, deep Polytechnic dean of the School of Computer Science and Control Engineering, Chinese Academy of 上海全区外卖工作室 Sciences, Professor of Pan Yi "Science and Life" as the theme, to share their experiences growing up as scientists, as well as experience in the education of their children.
Professor Pan Yi is a prolific, honor numerous scientists, he was the Ministry of Education Changjiang Scholar Professor of American Medical and Biological Engineering Academy, the Royal School of Public Health Fellow, Institution of Engineering and Technology Fellow, JSPS Fellow his name in the load "who in the world achievers" and other biographies.
He is very pro-family and to tell her the story of two generations of champion, he introduced his daughter won the American High School President’s Award, is the only states "female champion", he is also science scholar in 1977 in Jiangsu Province. In this 上海品茶论坛社区 regard, he said very humbly, herself and her daughter are of better luck, the year when the college entrance examination in front of a thousand people, Jiangsu Province, the results are similar in fact, they are good luck did not become champion; Similarly, Georgia that year there are seven out of high school, his daughter also received a good luck before the President’s Award. Be sure to make a choice to cultivate children Professor Pan Yi suggest that you can not pursue extreme things, to hold a degree, not only to grasp the opportunity, but also to know how to create opportunities, to guide found the child’s strengths, based on the pursuit of scores, find a suitable future the direction of development. Professor Pan Yi talked about the choice of learning direction, the "hobbies" important or "able to find a job to make money" is more important topic. He said: "Someone once said that he trained children not to look for work, but to cultivate the spiritual pillar of the child.
I do not agree with this view.
If a child after graduation is very good, finally I can not find work, low wages, and this is still a loser.
"So, Pan Yi believes that the interests between work and earn a measure of how parents tell their child to have a degree, can not be too extreme, depending on the economic situation at home may be.
For example, he said, the United States and some Chinese families, anxious to put children into well versed in literature, test scores Ye Hao, but the result is there will be no friends, social circle is gone.
He said: "This child, in life tend to lose a lot of fun, even without friends, the future development of the future is not good.
"His eldest daughter is in many specialty hobby in the last ballet and Spanish, but also insist on good scores in his own specialty. And he taught the little daughter also follow this principle, but do not force it achieved what high scores, he said: "there will be difficult moments in life, then you have to make a choice, you must give up something, what should fail. "" We just do the best you can, "said Professor Pan Yi, and life is self-confidence, self-confidence and self-conscious performance, rather than pride. He said," In college, the teacher gave me the discipline that we Tsinghua out It must be done first.
However, there are often many setbacks in life, we can not always be first, so I would not be so teach my students.
Because life is not first, you may be the first, went to another room is not the first in this room. We just do the best you can.
"He also said," Greed is the real poverty, contentment is really rich. "" The enemy is the best teacher, the plight of the best textbooks.
"These insights on life through his personal storytelling, caused by the presence of the parents of sympathy and applause.
Pan Yi also said he though has been engaged in learning and computer science, but his hobby is writing a novel, perhaps thinking more science and engineering help his writing.
It is understood that the parents in the Division lifelong growth forum will be normalized form continued to launch this year.
The forum aims to promote the integration of science and education, boost innovation and personnel training. The pulpit in the form of shared theme, inviting academician scientist, teacher education and outstanding scientists, parents and students face to face communication, so that more people understand the growth process of researchers, enhance quality innovative talents, and build innovative talent show sharing platform. Text, graph / Guangzhou Daily reporter Wang satisfied that all media.